Twin Flames – Understanding the True Purpose and the Energetic Dynamics - Wake Up Experience
Once we start a relationship with our twin flame, the reunion of souls in . This awakening, illumination and shift in perspective are clear signs a twin flame reunion is near. No matter how they look or behave (and they will be our opposite in The runner and chaser dynamic can last for months or years. It is interesting to go a bit further than the "Push & pull" dynamics which want to explore the connection and seems to behave as the “Runner”. There are many twin flame signs that define a twin flame relationship. you can seek out if you truly understand the dynamic of a twin flame relationship. . as well as my behaviors and likes and dislikes without even having to ask questions.
Our soul wants us to focus on ourselves and our own issues and healing. The transformation happens a lot quicker if we are not distracted by the presence of our other half. We have to understand, that our body is not ready to be able to stand these intense high frequencies we experienced in the bubble love phase for long, as we still carry a lot of old baggage and low fear frequencies.
The friction between those two frequencies is too strong. Being with our twin would mean that we would simply burn out and our system would collapse. Recognize the gift of silence for your ultimate good and use this time to focus on your own work instead of wasting energy into chasing and running away from your own lessons. Insight Number 5— Our Inner Child is a Key Holder When we started our journey on earth, it did not take long until we were completely caught up in the 3D game and programmed with false belief systems and templates.
We took for granted what we learned. Everything was based on scarcity and competition. Being not good enough and having to be better, jump higher, perform more… that was our reality. We did not question that maybe what schools, churches, governments, the industries, etc. So while growing up in our childhood, we were wounded and hurt because all of this programming was not in line with our true essence. Our fears and traumas that we experience today stem from that time.
When we face a certain situation our system recalls the memory of the past and reacts with the same protective strategy we came up with as a child. That results in anger attacks, crying, manipulating etc. We end up in the same mess again and again until we realize that we have to heal our inner child to get rid of the pattern.
And no one is better in triggering our inner child than our twin so that we regognize it and heal it. The inner child, when still in sabotage mode, is the nurturer of the ego, giving it the fear patterns it needs to keep us in fear. When we make our inner child our best friend and get it to trust us completely, the ego cannot get any energy and is forced to transform into a higher frequency.
Tempered Together: Signs and Stages of a Twin Flame Reunion
Fear patterns are reprogrammed into love patterns this way. If you want to learn more about inner child work, please go here. Insight Number 6 — Acting out Emotions is good! Another big misprogramming of the 3D Matrix is that acting out emotions is inappropriate.
Crying, screaming, shaking, but also loud laughing or singing in public is simply indecorous in this ego-based society. What we have to understand is that acting out emotions is a good thing! It is a natural reflex that we have for a reason.
It is like energetic puking. Children still use that reflex. If they have an energy in their system that does not belong there, they scream, they cry or shake to release it right away.
And everything is cool again a couple of minutes later. Until we teach them that it is not okay to behave that way. So we keep all this toxic energy in our system and our emotional body gets an overload up to a point that it starts passing on dense energies into the physical body, which stores it. That manifests as muscle pains, inflammations first and can lead to serious illnesses such as cancer, heart attacks, strokes etc.
So instead of blaming ourselves when we feel like crying or screaming, we need to turn it around and learn that we have to be thankful for the possibility to release it. Compare it with a fish poisoning. Your stomach reacts with a natural reflex to throw up. If you fight that reflex and keep the food in your stomach, you can get very sick and even die. That again transmutes the energy to a high frequency immediately. You are supposed to reach a state of wholeness individually. The Universe requires transformation and change, not waiting until you are both ready.
You are here as a lightworker with specific gifts and tasks. Explore your childhood and personality to find out what they are and who you truly are and start using your talents to help others.
It does not have to be big, by helping one person you already cause a ripple effect. Your mission also gives you your purpose here on the planet and that is very fulfilling and helps you to move forward and come into a much more balanced state of being. Redirecting energies into something useful helps again to transmute energies to high frequencies of love and compassion. Move forward with your life as if reunion was not happening and you are happy and whole on your own, but know in your heart that your twin will join once all energy blockages between the two of you are cleared.
Insight Number 8— We are Transformers When we have learned to release emotions with gratitude, we have had our first lesson in lightworking. Because that is how transmutation of low frequencies into high frequencies works. Through gratitude and forgiveness instead of blame and judgement, we raise the vibration quickly. This requires to take a different perspective and see the benefit in every situation: What does it teach me, what do I recognize about myself and for my own growth?
Who did I meet that is important now to me that I would not have met?
By learning the language of energy and that energy can never dissolve but only transform, we recognize that we always have the steering wheel and we can choose if we want to go down the road of fear or drive up the highway of love. Once we have learned this transmutation on a micro level, we will be kicked into collective healing, transmuting on a large scale for humanity. That can be completely overwhelming in the beginning and our heart chakra, where we transmute the energy through can hurt like hell until we get used to it.
We have to understand, that we are part of a larger organism. All the high frequencies streaming in onto the planet need to be manifested on earth. We take those in and transmute them into a frequency that makes them suitable for humanity and the planet to take them in. So, please be aware, when you feel low, desperate, lonely, sad etc.
Be grateful for the releases to make sure to raise the frequency. That is THE definition of lightwork. The battle between darkness and light is not an open war as we would imagine it to be. Choose wisely, choose love. As already mentioned, many twins chose very dysfunctional families to incarnate into on purpose. Besides the experience of the misbalance between masculine and feminine energies, an important reason for that is to fully understand the 3D programming and to experience ourselves how it feels and how it works.
We had to understand that whole system in order to be able to hack it, infiltrate it and reprogram it with our light and love. Only that way, we are able to develop a compassion for those that are going through the same experience and to support them on their journey.
We were and are preparing ourselves for our mission we came here for. Insight Number 10 — Your old Life is supposed to be destroyed That is another tough one to understand. How often do we hear from twins: But is that really true? Why could someone then have such an impact on you? The twin flame journey is shaking you up for a purpose and challenges you to the deepest level.
- Twin Flames – Understanding the True Purpose and the Energetic Dynamics
It forces you to find back to your divine essence, to become your most authentic self. It is not just falling for the way they look, smell, or talk.
There is much more to it than what meets the eye. There is much more that happens than what your heart can grasp or your head can understand. And here's what that is. Signs You've Met Your Twin Flame Unusual Meeting Before you actually meet your twin flame, there are several synchronicities that are leading you to them.
It could be seeing numbers such as,and so on and so forth. It could also be many such repeated patterns that are all conspiring to conjure this meeting between the two. Some of these signs you may notice, but may not be able to decipher, while some may go absolutely unnoticed too.
However, it is usually under a strange circumstance that you will meet your twin flame. Probably in a place where you were not supposed to be or in a situation that had never crossed your imagination. These synchronicities are only pointing out to you that they weren't strange coincidences, but a planned series of events that made you focus subconsciously towards finding the one.
An Instant Connection The connection is instant. Just one look and that is all that it takes to know that you have known this one person for all your life. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.
Oddly, you find yourself recognizing your twin flame's every habit and gesticulation right from the sound of their voice to the smell of the skin. This isn't like having the hots for someone or having a crush on someone. It is more akin to the relation your subconscious mind makes your flame's conscious acts.
Tempered Together: Signs and Stages of a Twin Flame Reunion
There is no need or the desire to impress, but simply to fit together as pieces of a puzzle that the two of you are a part of. Everything about your twin soul brings a comforting sense of familiarity.
Meeting the person evokes a sense of 'coming home'. It is falling in love at first sight, in the truest sense. Different Language Communication is not limited to the knowledge of a common language.
It is a need that is satisfied through a unique language code, which only the twin flames understand.
TWIN FLAME SIGNS AND RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS
A complete unity and an incomparable oneness is sought and derived out of a heightened sense of communication that the twin flames possess for each other. Complete Togetherness Twin flames know no distance.
Like conventional couples, they are not governed by the sadness that separation bestows. A closeness is already sought in the way the two communicate without having to say anything.
Communication is a form of a reflection between the two. Your twin flame mirrors your needs, desires, concerns, ambitions, dreams, and hopes about those things that matter in your life. The two will also complement each other's skill sets and talents, to make each other truly complete. Spiritual Awakening There are times when you find yourself stuck in a relationship that is emotionally unavailable and incredibly unsatisfying.
The reverse of this happens the moment you meet your twin flame. You begin to unlock the layers of emotions you kept away from exploring and feeling with your twin flame. There is acceptance, honesty, healing, and fulfillment of your emotional needs. The balancing act in a relationship becomes equal, better, stronger, and much more sustainable than any of your previous relationships.
All of this put together culminates into an experience of a spiritual awakening and a perspective on life that never existed before. Intimacy The individuality of each soul that existed so far is merged into one. In your beauty, how to make poems.
You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art. This is the reason a physical act becomes the real communication for both the flames.
This intimacy might be led or dominated by the male twin, while the female twin might make a due surrender. The male and female twins in this context are mere energies and not the genders themselves.
It is in this union that intensity and complexity find their purpose and release. Completeness There is a sense of completeness that possibly cannot be described in words. The twin flames come closer and closer with each passing experience shared with one another. They discover more about themselves than they would have with other people. This sign of having found your twin flame can only be felt once the twins reach the stage of harmony with each other. An interesting facet about twin flames is that they may be people belonging to the same gender, they may share huge age differences, and they will usually only meet under the strangest of circumstances.
A female avatar of a certain twin flame may carry a male energy, while the male embodiment may have a female energy. Regardless of these complexities, the two souls will always fit together as though they were missing pieces of the same puzzle. The concept of twin flames is often confused and misunderstood as that of a soulmate. This is because they have to live with someone who is deeply in love with someone else and no matter how much your twin tries to hide it, their partner can feel it.
You know how in a relationship you can tell when your partner is lying? When you are in love with someone else, it always affects any other romantic relationship you try to have with other people. But even if they do have sex, have you ever had sex with someone who is having sex with you because they feel obligated? It feels awful for both parties. Like everything in life all is interconnected, so if a relationship is over mentally and emotionally — it will be over physically as well.
Sex expert Kim Anami even goes as far as claiming that relationship issues directly affect how attracted or repulsed we feel to our partners genitals. If you have ever been in a relationship that is ripping apart at the seams, you know how uncomfortable that state is — but you also know how difficult it can be to leave a relationship that is dead because of external reasons.
When your twin is in a committed relationship with someone else, you need to give them the opportunity to live up to the man or woman they want to be.
There is literally nothing that you can say or do including ultimatums that will have your twin choose you. When the time is right they will leave on their own, when they are ready. Again not sleeping with them helps you to be more emotionally detached, which you will need anyway if you want to come into Twin Flame Union. All my friends tell me to move on and think my twin is a ….
You doubt the 5D signs and syncs. You doubt your inner guidance and basically you doubt your sanity. The funny thing is that Divine Masculines are often acutely aware of the fact that you deserve much more or better than the way they treat you.
Their odd behavior only serves one purpose and that is to mirror you your own wounding. Those are not the kind of situations that Twin Flames encounter, those are more common in normal 3D karmic and even soul mate relationships. I always ask my clients about sex in their relationship with their twin, because it does trigger so much — many of my clients have NEVER had sex with their twin at all.
They have never had fights. As frustrating as this behavior maybe, it will not be abusive. So you basically only have two options stay in the regular mindset of what we say LOVE looks like, the old 3D romantic love template and try to fit this Twin Flame experience in there which will just keep you hurt and stuck and fully disempowered — doubting your own sanity.
Or you can shift your perspective and allow this connection to bring you where you are meant to be, fully anchored in a new perception of reality and in a so much more better space than when you met your twin. It can all happen in the blink of an eye. It will happen when you have done the inner work this journey asks of you.
Not sure what that is? Whether your twin comes back or not, following the program will help you come back to balance and understand the deeper meaning of the process your twin served as a catalyst of. On top of that you get to be a part of an AMAZING International community filled with beautiful, intelligent, awesome people who love to share this journey with you.