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They become more open to flirting with attractive men and more actively seek opportunities to meet attractive men to flirt with (e.g., more likely to accept an invitation to dance by an .. When she uses cheese in front of a hamster frame. Guys can go about learning how to flirt with girls all wrong: they try and learn using implications, and setting chase frames is simply the normal expression of a . Frame control is an incredibly necessary thing for you to master, both internally and externally, for finding success with women. Guys that have it get their way.
After all, money cures all, right? Despite outward appearances, the world is often a very lonely place for the most beautiful women. Something you may want to keep in mind, just to keep everything in perspective: Boston University has a related study right here. The point is to get you to see beauty in slightly more realistic terms. Pretty girls are just girls with the most normal-looking faces.
And great bodies are a combination of a good hip-to-waist ratio and general overall shape working out regularly, being firm and toned. First, if you rate girls according to looks, stop. When you rate anything on a scale, you naturally tell yourself that some are better than others, and you place yourself on that scale too.
Still possible to do good with her? Are you handicapping your ability to do good with her by placing her on a pedestal? No more looks scales. Or, if you must use a scale, use the 1 to 3 scale: Next, start policing your thoughts and language.
How to Physically Escalate in Public with Girls
May sound silly, but this is where your opinions are formed. Finally, talk to everyone. Be a social person in general, and be flirtatious with all kinds of women: No need to go out on a limb or lead them on, but just being generally sexy and cool are what you want to do.
Picture any ladies man you can think of; now ask yourself if he treats ordinary women any different from attractive women. He might pursue an attractive woman much more aggressively, sure; but he is still fun and likeable and flirtatious with ordinary women too. Now how about some specific advice? Many guys try to be cold and aloof around very beautiful women because those women often come off at least at first as cold and aloof. Meeting a new girl is an outreach program — you want to get to know her, and help her get to know you.
Being a warm, genuine, sincere guy makes you come off as more trustworthy and likely to be an ok person than all the people who walk up to her every day trying to be too cool for school. You should challenge her just as much, in a very friendly way. But how do you do that? Well, you do it by pulling fast, or coming late.
If you've been exploring the nightlife with any regularity and you haven't been going regularly for the whole night open to closethen you've probably been missing a lot of patterns. Namely, that many women are a lot more open to meeting new people at the start of the night, and they can be quickly pulled then, or locked into a conversation early on and you're their "guy" for the night assuming you don't take too long to take them home And, many women are testy and short-tempered but open to being pulled by a strong man at the end of the night, too.
But a whole lot of women won't do anything other than evaluate, evaluate, evaluate throughout the entire middle part of the night. That means, if you're showing up for the middle part of the night - or you didn't do such a hot job meeting girls early on at the outset - you're probably going to have a long night ahead of you of competing with one guy after another after another for the girl you're talking to. She's not going anywhere, which means now she's going to take her time to see how well you compete with the other men who are approaching her.
And what happens when you've got an entire night to defend your prize? Well, a few things: There's a good chance you get tired and worn out and start slipping up There's a good chance you start looking needy by hanging around with this girl who's forcing you to compete for her There's a good chance that, no matter how good you are, some guy comes along and out-competes you for that girl you just plowed two hours into "working on" I went through this countless times before I adopted the mantra of " move faster with women.
Fun for the girl, of course Some of that is skill, some of that is chance. You want to remove chance from your interactions as much as possible, at least once you're reasonably skilled.
It's kind of like being a good gambler at a casino. I don't care how good you are, if you stick around long enough, somebody's going to beat you. And unlike the casino, you don't get to play another hand at the same table after you get beat; and you don't get to keep any chips to cash out.
You lose once with a girl, you're wiped out. The good news is They want a guy who knows how to attract women who's going to flip their switches fast, then get them out of there That may be hard to believe when you're just starting out. But believe it, yes - just like you, women are biological organisms, and just like you they need to make babies.
Sex is how they do that, thus, they are driven to want it. Get there early, or get there late, and whatever you do, move fast. But wait - what if you're not sexy yet, or you don't really feel like braving the nightclub and all the competition for those flashy, lustful women? Never fear - day game is here.
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But wait, you say - do women want sex in the daytime too? Well, let me ask you this - do you think they only ever ovulate at night?
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Walk around outside and pay attention to the women you walk by. Chances are, you'll pass by at least a few women who give you a hard stare. You should probably go meet those women If you don't get looks from women, then you need to work on your style - the focus should be "sexy" and "edgy.
Well, is being attractive to women you? Most guys will tell you, "I want to be attractive to women, and still dress how I want! That means a sexy haircut, cool facial hairand a good, cut build. However, when she starts perceiving you as a sexual man a loverthe chances that you will have sex with her increases drastically, because sex becomes something expected from you.
When you touch a woman, and behave in a sexual manner leading the interaction from a social one to a sexual one with a lot of confidence it automatically makes her perceive you as a sexual man — which is a good thing.
Creating a Physical Connection This is probably the most underrated aspect of escalation. Again, it all comes down to escalating the vibe i. But when you escalate, you also create momentum — you make her feel that there is something special going on between you and her. This makes her more comfortable about you being physical with her, as she sees potential in you as a lover.
Start Early On In order to escalate the vibe, you need to start somewhere. What is important is to start getting physical with a girl as soon as possible. The more you interact, the more you flirt, the longer you wait before starting to touch her, the more the nervous you will become to actually do it. The idea of touching her will just feel awkward to you, and you might even chicken out and not get laid. But it will also affect her, as it will make her more nervous when you touch her.
She will perceive you as an a-sexual man. Sex is not expected from you, and once you start touching her after having waited for, let us say, two hours? In the worst-case scenario, she might even put you in the friend zone. There is one exception to this rule, which is that you can wait with the touching if you manage to make her horny and set a sexual frame by using sex talk.
But still, better be safe than sorry: Follow a Ladder — Escalate the Vibe Again, you want to progress from a social vibe into a sexual one. But in most cases, you cannot just jump from a social vibe into a sexual one simply by doing one bold move. Single bold moves done out of the blue typically merely create resistance and sometimes even progress into a rejection. What we therefore want to do is to climb a ladder — escalating the vibe step by step.
The process can be explained as making small moves and increasing the sexual-ness of the escalation according to her reactions. You take one step forward if and only if she reacts positively to your moves. If the vibe she gives you is negative or neutral, watch your moves and put your escalation on hold until the vibe gets better.
The whole purpose is to climb the ladder according to her level of interest. In my report about last minute resistanceI shared a few escalation ladders. The idea with these is to move from touching areas of her body that are socially acceptable to touch into touching more and more intimate areas.
Here is an example of an escalation ladder that you can use: You can escalate halfway up to, for example, step 5and then go for a kiss in order to drag her back home. When home at her place, you should start doing the escalation ladder all over again from the beginning because some momentum will be lost during the pull like during the taxi trip.
Once at the seduction location though, you will of course go all the way. Confidence When it comes to mating, we men are the dominant ones. This means that we are supposed to lead women through the interaction. The same thing goes for seduction, and especially escalation. These are all good things.